Tuesday, March 30, 2010

With a Grain of Salt

There is nothing more unintelligible than the human heart. As Homer once said, at the current state of living, I too can imagine what's so difficult to understand. Mere beings as we are in todays society, the level playing field is handicapped by numerous factors. The freedom of being heavily influenced to dreadful acts themselves are easily tempted. What is to love as it cannot be seen, endowed by the ultimate individuals scheme. Run with the wild as though you dream, they shatter so fragile, unforeseen. What does it take for one to 'cling', the moral of enrichment, all so lean. Attachment, oh so taboo, I rest my anchor on your shoes. Having set my organ beneath the chest, it's kickoff, I push reset.

Once anyone gets accustomed to fall in and out, there's no telling when one has the knack to shout. Or, in this case, just write and believe in thy own words. No one person can say they've met every type of mate to have ever date, but the idea of finding that one true match, is very compelling. The multitude of personality, appearance, nationality, endearment, vitality...list goes on for the skeptical few. All that really matter is what sharing each others company will do for the two of you. No one is perfect, the thought of being 'normal' to anyone is just as abnormal to another for some. Convenience, taking others for granted, foolishness, re-branded. Life is a constant stream, without flow or practical fluvial matter, there would be nothing more, fore or latter.

To understand what the 'significant' other brings to the table is just as challenging as presenting yourself to him/her yourself. It is easy to fall out of line and mess up a few times, but the act of trying to correct wrong from right goes to show improvement. In a perfect world, our life long dream along with fairy tale love would be too good to be true to handle. Getting a grip for the moments we seem to cherish by the minute is often overlooked by the thought of what can be better or what is it that we're trying to accomplish and maintain. This is a mistake, if not, a partial problem to the demise of a blossoming relationship.

The cycle of dating never gets old, it's natural and everoccuring, then again there are several ways of finding yourself in one loop more often. I'll break it down to two distinct types as noted; 1. Singles Net and 2. Good Terms. The more obvious and low profile would be Singles Net. In this particular category comes personal preference and the value of ones self reflected upon others. Therefore, what you perceive in 'reality', reality being constant and ever changing determines your interest within the common pool. Second is Good Terms, based on how an individual sets their value and what he/she seeks may last from short term to long term given they both praise the enduring couples theory.

Monday, March 29, 2010